When you are going to school, the question everyone asks is, “so, what do you want to do?” Usually, you can get away with a quick summation of your major, or explain every tedious detail of your wildest hopes and dreams. No matter what you say though, even if you’re prepared with an answer, that question can feel ominous. What do you want to do? How can we know what we should do, and more, how are we supposed to know if it’s what we need to do? This question far surpasses our education.
We are forced to make choices every day. Some are simple and some feel impossible. But with every choice we make, we are determining what we view as something we want vs. something we need.
There’s a way to know if the choices you make every day are best for you.
In 1943, Abraham Maslow created what would be known as Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs.1 Maslow theorized that the human brain, is a complex system filled with ever-changing processes and priorities, was constantly motivated by various levels of needs. The Hierarchy would be illustrated in a pyramid shape to easily portray what we needed most and what motivated us the least.
Today, the Hierarchy remains a useful framework for sociology research, management training, and psychology.
To make the right choices, identify what you need most first.
The pyramid suggests that we need all the elements listed, but some are primitive needs (think: physiology and safety) while others have only just become important to the human race (think: social and ego).2
To break down the needs in the pyramid, the following list will break out the subcategories of each, beginning with the most important and ending with the least important.
Physiological: Breathing, food, water, sex, sleep, homeostasis, excretion.
Safety: Security of body, employment, resources, morality, family, health, and property.
Love/Belonging: Friendship, family, sexual intimacy.
Esteem: Self-esteem, confidence, achievement, respect of others, respect by others.
Self-Actualization: Morality, creativity, spontaneity, problem-solving, lack of prejudice, acceptance of facts.
The Physiological, Safety, Love/Belonging and Esteem levels of the pyramid are known as ‘deficiency needs.’ If these needs aren’t met, such as eating, drinking and sleeping, then we can’t feel safe physically or mentally. This ultimately impacts our ability to meet the needs we have for friendship and social existence which all leads to a severe blow to our self-esteem. But if we can meet those deficiency needs, then we can begin to conquer self-actualization.
Not surprisingly, only some people are able to meet these self-actualization needs, as they require honesty, independence, awareness, objectivity, and originality. These traits can be challenging to acquire.
And what you need most may change throughout your life.
The five stages presented by Maslow do not all have to happen simultaneously, or even in the same year. In fact, the five stages usually happen throughout the span of someone’s life. For instance, if you are trying to pay off a credit card, but a medical emergency causes you to go into debt, you’ve lost your financial safety, essentially starting you over from the base of the pyramid. But the reverse is true, too.
Maslow created the theory in order to track growth and development in human beings. He started with infants, as it stands to reason their most basic needs are met (food, water, shelter, cleanliness). But Maslow determined the other stages by examining people in all walks and stages of life. He even added a couple more stages later in his life: Cognitive and aesthetic. Finally, Viktor Frankl, a psychologist in the 20th century, added self-transcendence to the hierarchy. This brought the final count to 8.
Though we have always made decisions based on needs, whether we considered Maslow or not, knowing more about the Hierarchy can be immensely helpful. Maslow himself assured people that failure to meet certain needs at various stages of life and development could lead to mental health issues and even physical illness. If this sounds dramatic to you, think about it: If you don’t feel safe, you can become anxious and paranoid. If you don’t feel loved or as if you belong, you can become depressed. Lack of self-esteem can lead to the inability to self-actualize and even become suicidal.
When you understand how needs work, you know how to motivate yourself and others.
Because the Hierarchy is all about motivation by needs, understanding how it works can help you, not only in your own life but at work.
If you are doing a group project or involved in a team or small staff at work, understanding how those around you are motivated can help you understand how to properly communicate with them. The model can help you gain a better understanding of what motivates those around you. This can be helpful in devising a plan to keep your team happy. Remember, assuming everyone is motivated by money is not always the best way to approach something. If economic times are hard, money may not be flowing the way it usually does. In that scenario, it’s important to know how else to keep your team motivated.
Provide Resources. If you’re a manager, consider allowing your employees to cross-train, or receive special projects and assignments. If an employee feels especially important, it helps meet their esteem needs.
Provide Security. Simple gestures like ensuring an employee have business cards and a meaningful job title can also work wonders when it comes to esteem.
Avoid a secretive workplace. If an employee feels like they aren’t allowed to know certain aspects of the company or its plans, it can take away their feeling of security. While it is not always a possibility to let your employees know every single detail, try to be open about what you can, and if it’s confidential for a reason, let them know that, too.
Be social. Whether you’re a manager or a coworker, don’t act as if no one can speak to you. While a workplace should be professional and not treated as a time for socializing only, it is still important to create a welcoming environment in which employees can speak to each other. This fulfills the social need.
Be aware of the choices you make. Every time you make a decision, you are fulfilling some kind of need. Make a note on your smartphone or in you planner of big and small decisions and see where you fit on the Hierarchy. Are you doing things to give yourself financial security? Social? As you become more self-aware, decision-making will become easier and also more meaningful.
Article by Heather Poole. Shared from http://www.lifehack.org